Wednesday, December 30, 2009

2009 Kenya Trip, Part 2, To Migori We Go

November 20, 2009; To Migori We Go... Or Do We?

In Kenya Trip Part 1, I left off on my first day and arrival into Nairobi with Milly and I resting at the Hampton House while Domnic, Samuel, and Leonard picked up our rented private car to drive to Migori in. The guys got to Hampton House about 2:30pm with the "tiny" car we rented for the trip to Migori in order to get there Friday night, the 20th. Taking a public Bus with stops in each town it takes 6 hours or so to go from Nairobi to Migori; in private car it is supposed to take 4 hours, meaning we would be in Migori around 7pm, saving us from late night travel.

Nairobi; outside Westlands on way to Limuru















We squeezed in and took off from Hampton by 3:00pm, stopping for gas outside the Westlands area of Nairobi before leaving town to pass through Limuru and then drive down into the Rift Valley area, heading southwest.


Western Nairobi















At the gas station I was over-charged 20ksh for my Soda since I was a Mazungu (Swahili for white person or foreigner), but the argument was not worth the wait to quench my thirst. Milly bought the same soda and paid less. ;) I learned to chose my battles wisely in Kenya.

Migori District, where majority of the Luo Tribe still live and remains partly rural with half or more of area still lacking electricity, is only 30 minutes from the Tanzania border and 1-2 hours from many Lake Victoria communities including Karungu and Luanda. Migori has a single main street/downtown area - the only paved road in Migori is the main street since it is also a major highway from Kisii. The other roads are all very rough dirt/mud with potholes that should be called canyons and huge complete breaks or cracks that are 3 feet wide and the length of the road. Somehow motorbikes and even taxis drive these roads, often stalling out when driving down into the "canyons and cracks" with drivers who are gifted with some MAJOR driving skills. The businesses in Migori are all on the main street downtown along with local market and kiosks along the main road and the attaching dirt roads leading out of downtown include homes/private kiosks selling veges and fruits from their gardens. There is no real flat ground and to go south or north of Migori's main street you end up walking or driving up and down hills and/or mountains. Walking takes much effort but takes those pounds off quickly, in conjunction with the Kenyan corn-based protein lacking diet, as you walk almost everywhere to save money on transportation or to follow cultural suit. Migori used to have many Kikuyu Tribe people living amongst the Luos and other smaller numbers of various tribes there until the election violence 2 years ago when Kikuyus were targeted after the issues between the Luo & Kikuyu Presidential Candidates and questionable vote counting. During this election violence, some Luo & Masai mobs ran most of the Kikuyus out of the Migori area and burned or destroyed every single Kikuyu-Owned Building in Migori, whether Luos were living there or not. Terrible aftermath that affected the entire area quite severely and even killed many Luo in addition to Kikuyu. People there seem to be forgiving quickly and inviting Kikuyus back to the area slowly, but time will tell.

View of Rift Valley As We Head Down the Mountain















Tree Flying By

After leaving Nairobi we were enjoying our thought to be "smart" choice of transportation including the beautiful views as we drove down into Rift Valley area and out of the city until about 1 hour into it when we tried to pass through one of the many Police Checkpoints (all along the roads and major highways there are Police Checkpoints where they can stop you for any reason they so choose). Though we were not speeding or doing anything wrong, they waved us over to stop and made our driver, Leonard, get out of the car and follow them back to their vehicles. Then he came back with one of the Police who noticed me, the Mazungu, in the backseat and asked some questions of Samuel & Leonard in Swahili. Next thing we know they are saying we were speeding and needed to pay a fine there on the spot. In Kenya, the Police can enforce on the spot payment in which they often put right into their pockets (mainly their way of bribe corruption). Knowing this over 5,000ksh fine was probably just because the Police saw a Mazungu-me, Leonard took almost an hour negotiating the "fine" down to 2,500ksh (kenya schillings). During all this I used my UK Satellite phone to text Carl for prayer support to get us out of the predicament safely. Funny how when I am in Kenya, God is the first person I turn to in every situation for help or guidance, but here at home I often don't go to God until I am in deep and can't find a way out. The convenience and comfort of my home environment serves as a false sense of control and security. In Kenya, I automatically go to God on EVERYTHING instantly and I assume God is the only guide, source, or way out or through ALL situations. Hmmmm; maybe a lesson to learn there, ya think? Phew... so we drove on... for about 10 maybe 15 miles... then we broke down. From where we broke down, I could still see the checkpoint far off back in the distance! At the same time, Domnic, sick from Typhoid, became severely ill with cycles of vomiting which he had to do in a plastic baggy that we would dump every stop for the remainder of the trip. It was at this point that everyone decided the Devil did not want me in Migori and was working very hard to keep us from God's work. The next morning we got confirmation of this, but that is for Part 3. Oy.

Killing Time while Broke Down... Milly
So now our car stopped working! Right in the middle of the Rift Valley Masai Mara area, we were broke down, needing water since we overheated the car, just to get to the next town to find a mechanic. We didn't want to use our drinking water with Domnic so sick and needing hydration but now it was late afternoon and we did not want to be stuck on the side of a Rift Valley road in the dark as that is extremely dangerous. You shouldn't travel at night anywhere in Kenya, let alone Rift Valley. Thank God, there was a Masai Family living off the road who at first did not want to share any of their scarce water with us during this drought time in the Rift Valley and I don't blame them, but with 45 minutes or so of Samuel and Domnic talking with them, they gave us their just used dirty wash water. Basically the 45 minutes of bargaining was just to wait for them to use the water first before giving it to us; which worked for both parties really.

Masai Boy
During the wait for water, 3 of the families children, Masai kids, came up to me out of curiosity to see a Mazungu up close.



Animals cared for by Masai Boy















I shared a pack of gum with them which made them extremely joyful and super excited; maybe too much so as one boy became a bit agressive trying to grab for more gum, but who could blame the kid. I just told him "pole pole" which means several things in swahili including "gentle" or "slowly" so he calmed quickly. Thank you Jesus for knowing a little swahili! Asked to take a picture of the family but they wanted too much money for the priveledge to do so. I did get a couple shots of the kids before that and their livestock they were caring for. ;)

Waiting For Water; Samuel















So we were back on the road for a second time (or was it a third time?) and off to the next town where we could find a mechanic. We ran into a medium sized majority Masaai town where there was a huge shack-type mechanical compound where 20 or so mechanics were working, welding without eye protection or gear, eating, and chatting it up. Domnic wouldn't allow Milly nor myself to get out of the car since all males there and not sure of our safety, so us two girls sat in the car with Domnic while they worked on it while Samuel and Leonard stood outside watching over the work to assure we were being treated fairly and getting what we paid for. It took a couple hours which was painful to sit in a hot, no air, stuffy car for that long, but we had some great conversations. Took 5 guys under the hood and by the time the car was fixed it was completely dark, pitch black. We paid them, took off for Migori, and prayed for safety. Exhaustion set in as I had been up since 4am Wednesday and it was now Friday night, so though I normally can't sleep in cars or anything moving without getting sick, my body was shutting me down, sick or not. No matter how hard I tried to stay alert or even barely awake, I had no choice, my brain stopped. Squeezed into a tiny backseat unable to wear a seatbelt or even re-adjust my body we were hitting road canyons (african potholes) and cracks going 55+mph, causing nausea the entire time along with many bruises on my hips & back. Seriously... my butt would fly up and off the seat when we would hit the larger potholes aka canyons and the only reason I stayed sitting upright was because I was wedged between the door and Milly's boney sides which caused half my bruises. Two boney girls wedged together makes for a painful ride! I was shocked I nodded off sitting up with my head in my hand. Nausea or sweats often woke me along with the bigger road cracks that would jar me awake, but the smaller-constant potholes actually soothed me deeper into sleep. At night, there are no street lights and it gets pitch black fast in rural Kenya, so even with head lights on (shotty headlights at best), you can not see the sides of the road well. Often, when passing oncoming traffic, Buses & Matatus force you off to the side so we would drive with 2 tires on the road and 2 tires in dirt or bush, yet still going 55+mph. I am sort of happy it was too dark to see or react. Yikes!

"Late" Chicken & Chapati Dindin














Our 4 hour trip turned into a 9 hour trip, but we finally did arrive in Migori after around 11:30pm where we stopped at one of the only restaurant/cafes (no fast food in Migori but they do have it in Nairobi) where I picked up the last of the day's chicken and chapati. I ate all the chapati (like african tortilla/flatbread) but barely touched my chicken as it was questionable; had definitely sat all day in the heat ruborizing.

My Room View @ Hill View:
Arrived at Hill View, my boarding house on the eastern outskirts of Migori downtown, off main street. By the way, there are no real addresses for buildings, businesses, or houses in rural Kenya - only addresses are PO Boxes. We chose Hill View because it has armed guards, a reinforced security wall, private room with decent mosquito netted bed, private washroom w/shower nozzle, toilet, and electricity! I could not stay at my Host Family's House, Domnic and Milicent Owigo, in their compound, though I would and did take all meals at their place. They did not have the room nor safety or guards, and it is in the more dangerous section of Migori. They also do not have electricity so cooking meals was interesting and I learned much about "real" cooking from scratch including how to kill the chicken. We just referred to it as "the compound" while I was there because the community housing and apartment type dwellings in Kenya are called compounds.

The Compound is located North of downtown area, in Suna Migori up one of the big hills; is an hour or so walk from my room at Hill View so I had to take taxi or public motorbike (called PikiPiki - Piki is swahili for motorbike) to and from The Compound every morning and night. Usually used same motorbike driver, Pastor Abuka because I knew I could trust him. PikiPiki Man was his official name given by me and it was used more than his real name. As a matter of fact, I did not even know his real name for a week until he was my translator on my 2nd Sunday in Migori when I gave message at the church he works in/attends. It was so funny; I did not recognize him in a suit without his motorbike Helmet so did not realize it was him, my PikiPiki Man, standing next to me translating until he stopped in the middle and said, "Don't you remember me? I am PikiPiki Man, Pastor Abuka, now translating for you." Then he laughed and laughed and laughed! He loved to laugh. :) Pst Abuka loved being called Pikipiki Man too; seemed to make him proud to be the Mazungu's personal PikiPiki Man. At the end of my stay, he said he now had the reputation of being the "Mazungu PikiPiki Man" of Migori. Ha! Too funny. At night I was forced to pay more for a taxi since so dangerous for taxi drivers to work at night(one was murdered while I was there) and too dangerous for Wazungu (swahili plural for mazungu) or even locals to ride around on Public Motorbikes, Pikipiki, due to criminal activities in dark hours.

PikiPiki Man!















I came to LOVE LOVE my PikiPiki rides every morning because it was fun, cooled me off in the humid heat, and gave me a chance to wave or yell "Habari Yako" or "Jambo" to everyone I knew on the way to the compound. Not surprisingly, by the end of my time in Migori, I knew many people along the way too. Tons of children would yell "Mazungu How are you?" or "Habari yako" to me daily which I came to love and even more so I loved the giggles when I would answer back in Luo or Swahili, "Mzuri sana". Boy did that make them estatic! They'd run a short bit after me sometimes laughing and talking or waving for me to come back. Domnic wrote to me recently that the very next day after I left Migori, children were already asking where the Mazungu was and that they were missing me. Made me sad yet so blessed to know they miss me as much as I miss them. Every day on our walks I most looked foward to the kids' greetings or Milly's Aunt holding and swinging hands with me as I walked by her kiosk/home area and kissing my cheeks hello and goodbye. She also had me calling her Auntie on day two; ended up feeling like my real Auntie - love her! By the end of the trip I knew more Swahili and noticed they were now treating me more like a local. And I must admit, I felt more like a local by the end of it... more than I ever thought possible. Everywhere I went my last couple days in Migori I ran into people I knew or had someone yelling Jambo or waving to me around every corner. It started taking longer to walk to the compound from town because we'd be stopped by so many people who wanted to chat or say hello. That must be one of my most amazing feelings ever experienced; a foreigner feeling like I fit into a world so foreign... to be so lovingly accepted by a group of people so different from you; they made a space for me. They called me their family, their sister, a Kenyan. They value relationships so much that everywhere they go, greetings and chatting take priority, sometimes even over getting to work on time. Only it is so hard to apply these lessons here at home. They sacrifice things we can't for their relationships though sometimes they could use more time consciousness... Ha ha! Will that be on African time or real time? Ha! Why can I not utilize this growth yet here at home? Because I am too busy here to stop to chat or greet 10 people on my way to work - that is why. I can not even keep up with emails let alone in-person socializing!

Grew quite comfortable and accustomed to the environment extremely quickly in Migori; much more than in Karatina last time. Felt more like home than anywhere I have ever been outside of Hawaii. ;) Figured out what to watch out for and be weary of or whom including the muslim area of the Migori district which is basically off-limits to anyone non-muslim. You can't even be employed in the Muslim's area unless you are a Muslim! I became well oriented with my surroundings and fully comfortable walking through Migori or grabbing a pikipiki. At the end of my time there I knew my way around the entire town; which market was best, where the best Pit Latrine (seatless outhouse - hole in ground) was downtown, and how to cross mainstreet during the day without being killed especially on market days when traffic is at it's worst. Also learned how to tell when it was a rolling black out day by sounds - when you hear generators in the downtown area or at the Hill View, you know there is a blackout (about every 2 days in Migori). The little things you begin to notice after such immersion and I absolutely favor the little things in life! Still have so much to learn in future trips back, but this trip was the first major lesson in this long journey. The days to come of my trip to Migori are some of the best, and most painful, days of my life... Part 3 to follow!

Mungu Akubariki (God Bless)
Bobbi Jo aka Butter

Monday, December 28, 2009

2009 Kenya Trip, Part 1, TRAVEL

Jambo Grace Family,

After many months of planning and preparing, the time arrived for the 2009 Kenya Mission Trip on November 18th. No mission trip happens, especially African, without some bruises, surprises, and minor discomforts; and when nothing worse than those occur the trip is considered a success. As they say on the mission field, "Expect the Unexpected" which was exactly what I did every step of the way and thankfully so. Four days into this particular trip, I had already experienced more than my share of the unexpected, including a cracked head! Three weeks into being home it still feels as if I have my feet on Kenyan soil and my heart torn between two homes. It has not been an easy transition back into home life or U.S. living this time around, but I am happy to be back with my family, friends, and of course my dogs whom all I missed dearly. Sleeping in my own bed or sitting on a cushy couch is amazing! For blog purposes, I will break this trip up into several parts which will describe the daily events and activities taken from my personal Journal kept while away. It is my hope that you all find the these kenyan blogs as interesting and life changing as the experience was for me. May it inspire us to continue our works in Africa and move forward with the vision and service there, beginning in Migori District and Lake Victoria's Umoja Project.

2009 Kenya Trip Blog.... Enjoy!

November 18-20, 2009; TRAVEL TRAVEL TRAVEL:
Plane 1 of 3 took off on time though leaving Mume (Carl) behind brought on tremendous emotional pain as I pray that God brings him with next time. Flew into Minneapolis St. Paul International, enjoyed a quick lunch that was a yummy burrito bowl, and took off for Amsterdam 3 hours and 40 minutes later. Enjoyed some movies including The Time Traveler's Wife, which not as good as the book, and My Sister's Keeper. Got to know my neighbor, a 19 year old Muslim girl originally from Kenya now living in Minneapolis with her Uncle, who was taking her first solo international flight and needed help with her tray, food/beverage choices, and movie watching. With the language barrier I could not find out why, but only that she dropped out of High School here in the states in the 10th Grade and has yet to continue any education. Found it alarming. She seemed extremely bright but after she explained that in 3-4 years she has yet to grasp the US culture and language(finds it all very complicated), this led me to believe the difficulty of learning our US-English prevented her from successfully transitioning into and/or getting through our educational system. She also indicated that her Uncle's family were not social with non-muslim nor US-born families, segregating her from US citizens. She did make it clear that she wished to be able to wear her hair out, short, and down like mine instead of keeping it in her head cover, but that she had no choice. Taught me how to wrap hair into a head cover and tie which was nice. We agreed that we always want what we don't have, including hair styles! Spent remainder of my 8+ hour flight working on a message, my bible study, and preparing outline cards. Once the plane arrived in Amsterdam, I helped my young Muslim friend find her gate for her flight to Geneva and then preceded to find a coffee joint and good place to put my feet up to wait for my mid-morning flight to Nairobi.

With a good 3 hour wait for my last connecting flight to Nairobi, I got a book out. While attempting to read, a Kenyan Pastor chatted it up with me and gave me his contact information rather quickly (always makes me weary when a complete stranger whom finds out I am on mission work going to their country hands me their contact info in the first 5 minutes). However, upon my arrival home I have been doing some research on this Bishop and am praying over networking in the future with him and his churches in Kenya. Next I had a Dutch older gentleman who thought I was Dutch and tried over and over again to hold a conversation with me in the Dutch language. He did not speak English; I did not speak Dutch. After several attempts to tell him I did not understand Dutch nor anything he was saying to me in which he would just continue talking to me in Dutch as if I did understand, I gave up and would just smile and nod. I understood maybe 1 word out of every 50; know for sure he said "five, round, and cancel" and tried to piece it all together; mostly this did not work. But I was highly entertained. Got quite a few giggles out of it as I am sure he did as well. Later I was told by a fellow traveler on our flight that I look exactly like the Dutch so it is no wonder why the Dutch guy assumed I was Dutch also. So funny.

No matter how sleepy I was or how much I kept my nose in a book I could not get a moment to myself. I think I must be a magnet for the lonely, bored, chatty, and curious or I just make too much eye contact with others. Even if I do not speak their language they want to chat it up with me. Ha! This may sound like a blessing, but often I find it a curse - especially in times of extreme exhaustion, both mental and physical. It can be highly entertaining though too, I must admit. After the Kenyan Bishop and Dutch guy were finished with me, the old Iranian lady who found a seat next to me and had "too much" time to kill decided she wanted to chat, quiz me, and tell me about every single one of her adult children from childhood until now. Now that was one hilarious and blunt little old Iranian Lady! She would go from cracking me up to embarrassing me to annoying me to moving me to tears... goodness. I now know about both her knee surgeries, her dual-citizenship in Canada & Iran, and about how she thinks people from China are "dirty little people" which was quite uncomfortable so I quickly changed the subject. Goodness!

Boarding time finally arrived; my flight was boarded and prepared for take off. We taxied a bit towards runway, stopped, sat for a couple minutes, and then the Pilot reported that there would be a slight delay due to a faulty engine indicator light. They taxied the plane to a parking like area near the runway as we waited for them to fix the faulty light. Over one hour later the Pilot reported that it was taking longer than anticipated though he was not sure how long and that what they thought was a faulty light was now a more serious issue with the engine cooling system. After another 2 hours sitting on that plane they finally announced that they would be taking us off the plane, driving us back to the terminal via a bus to wait it out there, and had to fly in a part for the aircraft. We all received drink/snack vouchers and were told to be back to the gate in a couple hours. In the airport, everyone from my plane hung out as a big group and got to know each other quite well. Met a couple other white/Mzungu missionaries that included 2 female solo-mission travelers like myself and 3 mission teams. Soon I was also getting to know Five other solo-travelers, all Kenyan nationals whom have all immigrated to Denmark, Amsterdam, and the States but did not know each other. Believe me, you have more time than you know what to do with in these situations when stuck in an airport 12+ hours and get to know those around you quite well.

This was the best part of my 2-3 day flight into Kenya; hanging out with those 5 Solos from Kenya. Needless to say, I was the only white one in the bunch which didn't bother me nor them. A nice thing about being outside the states, people care less about skin color. There was Ian, a 42 year old living in the US and Paris traveling to Kenya for a 3 month family visit in Nairobi. Caroline, traveling to Kenya to attend her father's funeral programs, lives in Denmark and was quite distraught half the time due to the worry of missing the Friday morning burial. We were due to arrive in Nairobi at 10:50pm Thursday night; we ended up getting there at 6am Friday so she barely made it to the 7:30am burial service start. Then there was Liz, living in Anaheim CA working as a Nurse, who moved to the states alone as a college student and was visiting family in Kenya. My absolute favorite of the bunch was for sure Agnus... what a character! She cracked me up constantly and I nicknamed her "Stinky" which I meant in a very loving way, believe it or not. Ha! Inside joke regarding too many hours hanging in an airport and on planes and not enough showering opportunities, resorting to the baby wipe poor man's shower. Let me just say that all us girls got great use of my package of baby wipes I stored away in my carry-on bag. ;) Agnus, living now in Pennsylvania and dating a U.S. Pennsylvanian Dutch man, was on her way to Nairobi to visit her kids from a previous kenyan marriage. In Kenya and most of Africa, when a wife and husband split or divorce, the man has full rights to the kids automatically; Paternal law still rules. Agnus was my favorite comedic form of entertainment for those 12 hours or so!

After our morning departure delay, we were to board at 3:30pm at gate F7, then at 4:30 at gate F8, and then 6pm at gate F5 where we went through a complete security check for a second time and were seated in boarding area. Then a very frightened-sounding attendant made the announcement that they were so sorry, but our flight time was changing again and the plane was not ready... and that (this was the worst part) our departure time was now "indeterminable" and could be the next morning or even re-booking altogether! Once everyone heard this, people were yelling at the airport staff, asking for management, huffing and puffing, while my group sat laughing out of complete exhaustion and disbelief. What else can you do at this point but laugh? The airport handed us all meal vouchers which we took to the restaurant to fill up on sandwiches and wine. Actually, my group had a fantastic time even though we weren't sure if it was because of the wine or the sleep deprivation.

The Solos teased me forever about how us Americans feed and clothe our dogs, allow them in the house, and treat them as family pets even allowing them on our furniture or to lick our faces. It was hilarious and I had no defense but to laugh right along with them... it is quite funny from the global perspective. We are quite silly to them. I now feel a little guilty scrambling eggs once or twice a week for my doggy children. Ha! But you all know I will still do it! Can not help but love my dogs, big softy; I blame it on my enculturation. We did finally get to leave Amsterdam but not until 11pm, after our 3rd complete security check of course. And this time I was chosen for the "special" pat down which in Amsterdam includes every inch of the body... I must admit, I felt a little violated after that one.

The red eye 9 hour flight felt excruciatingly long. Seemed to drag on and on with little solid sleep and every little thing waking me the moment I would finally fall into deep slumber. Watched "Night in the Museum 2" on the tiny aisle ceiling screens; the highlight of the flight because the food certainly was not. :( KLM uses their oldest and lamest planes for the Nairobi flights - next time I am switching back to United Emirates - so much better.

Nairobi Traffic















Arrived in Nairobi at 6am Friday where a Hampton House (missionary boarding house) Driver was waiting for me. Originally I was booked in a room at Hampton House for Thursday night, but since I never made it there that night, they booked me for Friday instead, knowing I hadn't slept in 2 days. Problem was that I needed to get to Migori by Friday night since my Hosts/Escorts from Migori, who came into Nairobi over night via bus, had prior commitments to get back to along with my orphanage day scheduled at Beula in Migori on Saturday. Our plan had to be re-worked on the spot Friday morning once I arrived at the Hampton House in Nairobi.


Hampton House Room View

Checked into Hampton House at about 9am where I took a lovely shower and had a driver take me to downtown Nairobi to the City Center to meet up with my Hosts/Escorts, Domnic & Millicent Owigo, Samuel, and Leonard.







Domnic, Milly, Samuel















We discussed a new plan including a new way to get to Migori by that night. Decided Milly and I would run back to Hampton for an hour of rest while they went and picked up the private car we decided to rent for our drive to Migori. Since Hampton had moved my booking to Friday to avoid charging me for the Thursday night I didn't arrive, I had to pay the Friday room price and lost $20 there... well not fully a loss as I did get a great shower out of it, some filtered "cold" water along with 60 minutes of laying fully horizontal which is heavenly after several days of flights and airports. ;)

First Shower Excitement... Nairobi, Hampton House















Next I begin my trip to Migori to spend 12 days. Migori District is about 30 minutes from the Tanzanian border in Southwest Kenya, near Lake Victoria. And boy what an adventure that turns out to be!!! More good than bad; more blessings than trials; definitely a good mix of everything.